Saturday, March 14, 2009

The Un-Awkward Silence

I know a few people who feel the need to keep conversation flowing at all times, and for whom silence is significantly unbearable.

I am not one of those people.

For me, being silent around someone only means that the need for speech has ceased. And that's a good thing, because (a lot of times) that means that you are comfortable enough around that person to let things go quiet.

However, sometimes silence can be unnerving... even for me. One of those times might very well be coming to me with undeniable force this weekend... or rather, tomorrow... which is really today. (Crap, 1:44am and my brain is still fully awake!)

Tomorrow I get to work with The Coworker for the first time since last weekend. Which is when I told him that I liked him. Bad idea. Now I am going to have to find some way to dance around the subject for three strait hours whilst feeling horribly awkward and more than a little embarrassed. That's a lot of dancing.

In reality, I'm really not as nervous about it as I was a few days ago. (Something about using an online flirtation to work through rejection issues.) But I am still a little worried.

For one thing, how much do I hate giant pink elephants that you're not allowed to talk about even though they are every second threatening to sit on your head? A lot. When an elephant is in the room, I like to be able to point it out, give it a name, and discuss the likelihood of it's making a stinking mess in the course of an hour. I do not like pretending it isn't there when we both know it is. However, as bringing it up might just make things even more awkward for the both of us, silence might be the only reasonable alternative.

And this kind of silence does not imply comfort.


  1. Eeeek, good luck with that! Just keep thinking of the online flirtation the whole time and how awesome they think you are :0) x

  2. LOL. Thanks, I'll try to do that!

  3. I was going to tell you to picture The Coworker in their underwear, but that might not help.

  4. I wish you luck with that. Wear some comfty shoes seeing as all that dancing in high heels might make your feet hurt. Wow, working with a Coworker you like, sounds almost as bad as falling for your best guy friend-and not telling him

  5. Badass Geek: LOL, yes, good thinking!
    Meme: It's not so bad, I barely have to see him anymore... but yah, for a while it really sucked.


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